Love and relationships
Listening well
Paying real attention to what another person says, without preparing your reply while they speak.
What the Bible can tell you
So, then, my beloved brothers, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger;
James 1:19
He who answers before he hears, that is folly and shame to him.
Proverbs 18:13
Listen to counsel and receive instruction, that you may be wise in your latter end.
Proverbs 19:20
A human reading
Really listening is a gift many people never receive. Sometimes it is enough to ask 'and how did that feel?' for someone to feel accompanied.
This page offers reflection and companionship; it does not replace a professional. If what you feel weighs heavily or lasts for weeks, talk with someone you trust or with a health professional.