Decisions and the future
Family expectations
Feeling the pressure to meet what the family expects, even when it does not match what we want.
What the Bible can tell you
For am I now seeking the favor of men, or of God? Or am I striving to please men? For if I were still pleasing men, I wouldn't be a servant of Christ.
Galatians 1:10
He said to them, "Why were you looking for me? Didn't you know that I must be in my Father's house?"
Luke 2:49
Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.
Proverbs 22:6
A human reading
Respecting your family does not mean living by their wishes. Talk honestly about what you want and why. There may be disagreement, but also understanding if there is respect on both sides.
This page offers reflection and companionship; it does not replace a professional. If what you feel weighs heavily or lasts for weeks, talk with someone you trust or with a health professional.